In "The Cost of Control," Sharon Hodde Miller confronts the common human desire for control—a desire that often seems more justified and achievable than ever before in our world of advancing technology, science, and medicine. This drive promises security and peace, suggesting that if we could just harness enough control over our relationships, health, and futures, all would be well. But Miller reveals the futility and dangers of this pursuit, laying bare the anxiety, complexity, and division that often accompany our attempts to dominate every aspect of our lives.
This groundbreaking book illuminates the paradox of control: the harder we cling to the illusion of mastery, the more chaos we seem to create. Miller argues that our inability to control things is not simply a reality we must accept but that in our striving for control, we can actually cause greater damage to our lives and to the things we value.
However, "The Cost of Control" doesn't leave the reader in a place of despair. Miller delivers a message of hope, presenting a profound alternative to a life of fruitless grasping. She draws readers to the authentic power vested in us through Christ—an influence that begins with our own selves and extends to our lives, without the need for relentless control. Through personal anecdotes, biblical insights, and practical wisdom, Miller guides readers in realizing this godly empowerment, teaching them how to exercise true influence that aligns with divine intention.
For anyone weary of the endless pursuit of dominance over their existence, "The Cost of Control" offers a breath of fresh air: a way to live that is grounded, fulfilling, and aligned with the powerful influence that comes from God's grace.
Product Details
Publisher Baker Books
Date Published Aug 16, 2023
Format Paperback
Language English
Pages 208
ISBN 9780801094934
Weight 2.31 lbs
Dimensions 5.5 X .52 X 8.5
Review
"I don't know about you, but for the last few years, I have been
doing war with my longing for control. And honestly I've been losing.
One huge part of the problem is that we're not having conversations
about how the gospel is the balm for our desire to keep it all together.
No one is talking about how God's Word is the lamp our feet so
desperately need because we're fumbling and falling over our own
self-sufficiency. Instead, we're praised when playing with the idol of
control. Enter Sharon. She is our wise pal, our gentle and knowledgeable
pastor friend. With care, curiosity, and boldness she's leading us to
lay down control in a kingdom way. I am so grateful. Please read this
book."
About the Author: Sharon Hodde Miller, PhD
Sharon Hodde Miller, PhD, is not only a compelling voice in contemporary Christian literature but also a guiding light within her community as a teaching pastor at Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina. Bright City Church, which she co-founded alongside her husband, Ike, serves as a beacon of faith, togetherness, and spiritual growth in the heart of Durham.
Miller's literary contributions include the impactful works "Free of Me" and "Nice," through which she offers deep-rooted insights into living a life that reflects true Christian values in modern society. For over a decade, Miller has shared her wisdom and experiences on her blog, SheWorships.com, where she delves into topics that resonate deeply with believers navigating their faith in today's complex world.
Her voice has travelled far beyond her blog, earning her a spot as a regular contributor to Propel, Her.meneutics, and She Reads Truth. Miller's writings have also graced the pages of numerous other esteemed publications, including Relevant, Christianity Today, (in)courage, showcasing her ability to touch hearts and provoke thought across a wide audience. Through her writings, she explores the intersections of faith, culture, and personal transformation, constantly inviting her readers to reflect and grow.
Residing in Durham, North Carolina, with her husband, Ike, and their three children, Sharon Hodde Miller lives out the very principles she espouses. Her life and work are testaments to the power of faith in action, and her contributions continue to inspire and guide those who seek to live a life anchored in Christian values.